Tips for Selecting the Perfect Wedding Date

Selecting a date for your wedding is one of the most exciting as well as impactful decisions you will have to make during the planning process. This decision will  affect your venue availability, guest attendance, and the budget, to name a few of its far reaching effects.

This can raise your stress levels if you are not careful. While it may seem like a simple matter of just picking a day, the decision actually deserves some thoughtful consideration. Here's a look at what you should keep in mind.

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Consider the Season

Each season will come with its very own pros and cons. Summer will offer long days as well as great weather but it will also offer higher prices and competition for vendors. 

Winter can be very cozy and romantic but will often bring unpredictable weather. Spring and fall will offer moderate temperatures and also beautiful scenery. You should think about your ideal wedding aesthetic and the season that will best match your vision.

Think About Your Budget

Your chosen date will impact your overall wedding budget. Peak wedding months are typically May all the way through to October. 

This means venues are in higher demand and this may drive up costs for venues as well as vendors. Opting for a weekday or off-season wedding can often significantly reduce expenses. If budget is a priority, consider being flexible with your date.

Factor in Key Dates

Ensure that you cross-check your desired date with holidays, major local events, as well as family occasions. Avoiding conflicts with long weekends as well as big sporting events will help to ensure more guests can attend. 

You should also consider sentimental dates such as the anniversary of your first date or even the proposal.

Talk to Close Family and Friends

Before locking on a date, you should consult with your closest loved ones to make sure they can attend. If there are some must-have guests such as siblings, best friends, or even grandparents you will have to make sure they are available. 

Their presence is often more important than anything else.

Visit Potential Venues Early

Your ideal date may not align with the availability of your dream location. Start your venue tours very early and keep a few date options in the back of your mind so you can stay flexible. 

This is especially important if you are eyeing a very popular wedding venue that books up quite quickly.

Consider Your Timeline

Think realistically about how much time you will truly need to plan. Some couples are happy to plan for six months. 

Others prefer a year or more to do it. If you want a custom dress, destination wedding, or even a specific photographer, you may need more planning time, so carefully consider this.

Trust Your Instincts

Sometimes, a date just feels right to you. It may hold personal meaning or maybe it just sounds nice when you say it aloud.

The bottom-line is you should always go with your gut. Your wedding should reflect your personality and love story. Always keep this in mind when choosing a date.